Friday, April 5, 2019

Goodbye 20’s



Last Friday was my 30th Birthday. And if I am being honest I have mixed emotions. My 20’s started of difficult. But did get better as the decade went on.  


- You’ll Never Know How Much Your Mum Does Until It’s To Late
It was pretty soon after my mum died that I realized just how much she did. 



- Late 20’s are 100% better than early 20’s
I don’t know if it’s because I lost my mum 10 weeks after my birthday, but I felt my first 2 years of my 20’s were hard and I didn’t enjoy them. When I went to college I started to enjoy them more. But I enjoyed my late 20’s a lot more



- In my 20’s I Realized That Friendships Don’t Last Forever and that’s Ok
Ok so with this it’s kinda a 50/50, I lived in 3 different towns/cities while I was living in England and I knew that some friendships don’t last forever but a lot also do. But I also would say “oh we’re gonna be friends forever” but it didn’t end up that way.  



- But On The Flip Side I Was A Lot Better At Cutting Out Toxic Friends. 
In my teens I wanted tons of friends but in my 20’s I realized that maybe some of those friendships weren’t the best and cutting them off was the best idea. 




- My 20’s Taught Me To Love Myself More
My 20’s taught me that I can love myself. That I am ok and that no one can ever tell me otherwise. I learned it when I was about 14, but like most teenagers I didn’t believe it was ok to love myself. 




- That It’s OK Not To Have My Own Opinions
In this age of social media is always easy to get lost in what other people believe in. I have learned especially in my late 20’s that I have my own opinions and it’s ok to have them




- Social Media 
Yes I am in the social media generation. But when social media first came out it was MySpace, Bebo and MSN messenger. And really I didn’t use them that much. And look how well they ended up. I started having and activity using social media in my late teens early 20’s. And my Facebook is literally a mess. 


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